i didn't ask this, but i thought it's a good question. feel free to add your two cents to the comments.
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Why is it so difficult to treat people right when they don't treat you right? Why is it so hard to always take the high road when others are taking cheap shots every time they take a breath?
The Golden Rule is probably one of the most important commandments given to us, but it is one of the hardest to follow. Why?
because even though we should do unto others as we would like them to do unto us its just more human nature to do unto others as they are currently doing to us/